Life : Define Your Life

"Be happy while you're living, for you're a long time dead." - Scottish Proverb

Everyone says, "How the time flies." The days go by and they are years, and the years finally become our whole life. Each daily portion can be wasted, or it can be a pleasure, before it is gone forever. If a bedtime review of the day concludes that we were too stressed, too busy, didn't accomplish anything, didn't have any fun, then it has been another lost piece of precious life.

Perhaps we are putting off our enjoyment until we have more time, or money, or some other improved condition. The trouble with that is that it might never happen, or it may be too long in coming. It's so important to accept this time, this very minute, as something of tremendous value that will very soon be gone forever. There are many ways to ensure that we make the best of our time here on earth.

In our daily routine let's include time to enjoy others and thus ourselves. Look and wonder at the trees, fields and mountains, smell the flowers, hear the birds, and watch the clouds in the sky.

"This world, after all our science and sciences, is still a miracle; wonderful, magical and more, to whosoever will think of it." - Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)

Face your problems bravely, confidently, and improve on your situation, no matter what state it be in. Be good to feel good. Be active and improve your mind. Laugh, relax, and sleep well.

Life is mostly froth and bubble; Two things stand like stone: Kindness in another's trouble, Courage in our own. - Adam Gordon (1833-1870)

Happiness is all a state of mind

We always want to be happy in our life. In the name of search for happiness we read various books, tips and consult with experts as if they give us happiness they already have with them. Definitely, these helps us little. But, actually happiness is a state of mind.

Most people believe that happiness develops automatically itself. However, in fact this is not correct psychologically and according to the researchs and most psychologists believe

that you will be happy if you feel you are happy. It is you who should make you happy and you can as well. By birth, some people are always happy and positive. They manage to turn any uneasy if happened in their life into happiness quickly and easily. Here, fortunately others can also practice at it like our daily exercise.

We take various medicine to kill the unhappy moments which gives us only short term relieve and cause many side effects in after long period of time. Rather, psychologically developed happiness remains for long period of time. You can do some practice or adopt some habits which helps you to be happy.

• Most people become unhappy when they are not able to do what they wanted to do. In such situation, we can remain happy if we are satisfied with what we get and where we reach. Everything in the past happened for certain reason. If we become unsatisfied and depressed , this brings us to even more mental and physical difficulties.
  


• Be satisfied with who you are and what you have got.Understand the reality of this world in everything.
  
  
• Whatever you may doing, do with your full focus and attention. If you can do interestingly and happily, nothing is boring to do.
  
  
• Do not make unnecessary and negative comparison with others. Such comparison will create feeling of unsatisfaction with your achievements and your life.
  
  
• Always think positive and feel that you will be happy tomorrow and your life will be interesting if only you are happy today.

Resolutions for Happy and Positive life

We all want to be happy and live a positive life. Here below are something you should remember as resolutions in your life.

• If you try to buy happiness with money, it may not be long-lasting or hurt you. So, let happiness develop automatically in you. Have good relation with your friends, family members, help others and ask for help with others as well in your trouble, do what you are doing with positive mentality, then happiness will develop itself in you.
  
  


• Always remember that time is the greatest thing. Do not be hopeless, depressed if you are in trouble today. Hope for the best because life goes continuously until your heart stops beating. Tomorrow definitely will bring good moments, joy and happiness for you.
  
  
• Never judge a person from his/her outer appearance, physical structure, wealth, situation today s/he is in. Try to read and understand what is written in their inner heart.
  
  
• Say Hi, Hello or shake hand with your friends or relatives when you meet them. Even if you can't do these things give them your good smile. Make your relatives and friends feel that you LOVE them.
  
  
• Try to control your words while speaking. People may forget what you did them physically, but they never will forget how you made them feel either in positive or negative way.
  
  
• Do not boasts of yourself too much being selfish and egocentric person and make other let down.
  
  
• Give too much time for improving yourself. So that you will not have time to criticise others.
  
  
• Always look at the positive part of everything and be confident with your decisions and what you are doing.
  
  
• Never let your mind be vacant. Learn something you are interested. Your vacant mind will be attacked by dangerous ghost called Alzheimer's. This does not mean you think negative things to keep your mind occupied.
  
  
• Take care of your health. If it is good, maintain it forever. If it is not good and unstable, take a immediate action without a delay of second to improve.